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Friday, June 12, 2015

Single? ~ Focus on This One Thing!


When you can be alone and not be lonely… that’s when Love will find you!

NOTlonelyYour ability to focus on a single task – a better you – will dramatically improve once you make the decision to do it. Making the decision is the hardest part. Over time, your decision to work on you every single day will reap tremendous benefits in your life and drastically increase your success rate with the opposite sex.

Staying focused is the key – a total commitment to you. Getting distracted is easy. You’re out in a crowd and you meet someone, begin to think, “He could be the one,” and your commitment to yourself goes out the window. It’s never good to start another relationship until some time has passed. There is no shame in being single for a while. Single is a word that best describes a person who is strong enough to live and enjoy life without depending upon someone else. Don’t allow yourself to get distracted.

Always remember: All failed relationships hurt for awhile, however losing someone who doesn’t appreciate and respect you is actually a “gain” – never a loss!

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CLoveLOGOCopyright © 2015 – Larry James. This idea is adapted from Larry’s books, “How to Really Love the One You’re With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship,” “LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing” and “Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers.” Larry James is a professional speaker, author, relationship coach and an award winning nondenominational Wedding Officiant. He performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere. Something NEW about relationships is posted every 4th day on this Relationships BLOG.

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