Letting go of past resentments, anger, your past relationships, your ex, etc., is the first step in preparing yourself for a relationship with someone new. Of course, after you have spent some time alone.
You can let go… and must, whether you are looking for another relationship or not. When you don’t let go of all that old baggage from the past, you suffer in silence. And you are most likely not ready for another relationship – even if you do want one – nor will you be until you let go.
Holding on saps you of the energy you need to let go. It will sap the life out of you and keep you from any relationship chances with anyone in the future. It’s not possible to hold on and let go at the same time. You either do one or the other.
Want peace of mind?
There is peace in release!
Just let go!
Larry’s NOTE: If the message of this post touched you, you most likely need to let go of something. Many years ago, I was struggling with letting go of a relationship that I knew was probably not going to end in marriage. But that’s another story. 😉 By accident (Larry’s NOTE #2: There are no accidents!) I stumbled upon a book that helped me let go. There truly is peace in release. I highly recommend you read: “The Secret of Letting Go” by my friend, Guy Finley.
BONUS Article: How to Let Go: The 4 People You Must Forgive
Copyright © 2013 – Larry James. This idea is adapted from Larry’s books, “How to Really Love the One You’re With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship,” “LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing” and “Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers.” Larry James is a professional speaker, author, relationship coach and an award winning nondenominational Wedding Officiant. He performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere. Something NEW about relationships is posted every 4th day on this Relationships BLOG.
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