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Thursday, September 29, 2011

How to Prevent “Crash and Burn!”

Filed under: Breaking Up,Making Up,Relationship Books — Larry James @ 7:00 am

Is your relationship on thin ice? Learning more about how to make relationships work might be a good idea!

break-upA good way to do that is attending relationship seminars and reading good relationship books. Doing so may may prevent your relationship from crashing and burning. A serious relationship takes major work and commitment.

Love is never enough. It takes working together and doing the things of healthy relationships. You can have all the love you want, but if you don’t have respect, trust and communication, you don’t have anything.

Perhaps a crash-course might be the answer. Books only work if you learn from them and then do the work! It’s best not to wait until it’s too late.

If you are feeling a disconnect from your partner, that’s when you need to take action. Here is what often happens. One partner is not happy with the way things are going in the relationship but fails to communicate those feelings to their partner and does nothing. The partner doesn’t have a clue but the other partner begins to seriously think that maybe this isn’t working out. Six months or more later, the partner who failed to communicate expresses a desire to leave and the other partner is shocked. However the other partner has had a six month head start to think, plan and decide to leave. This scenario is common. I have heard it numerous times in my coaching sessions. That’s what I mean when I say don’t wait until it’s too late.

It’s time to wake up. . . NOW. . . not break up! Don’t let your relationship fizzle.

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heart47CLoveLOGOCopyright © 2011 – Larry James. This idea is adapted from Larry’s books, “How to Really Love the One You’re With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship,” “LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing” and “Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers.” Larry James is a professional speaker, author, relationship coach and an award winning nondenominational Wedding Officiant. He performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere. Something NEW about relationships is posted every 4th day on this Relationships BLOG.

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