Larry James' BLOG

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Put Passion Back in Fashion

Filed under: Intimacy,Relationships — Larry James @ 7:00 am

Passion is not only about sex. It’s about having strong feelings about something. Ever hear of a crime of passion? Passion means many things to many people. It may be a burning desire to reconnect with your partner in conversation. Demonstrate passion by passionately working together on your relationship. It can blaze new trails.

No sex? Not much intimacy anymore? Been a long time since you actually made love? Too long? Humm! Know this is true: “Relationship problems always show up in the bedroom.” Many couples avoid sex when marital issues surface because they feel emotionally distant. Often couples that come to me for relationship coaching in the sexual area discover that it’s not about sex at all.

A lack of sex is nearly always a symptom of something that needs fixing in the relationship. It’s about fixing all the little nuances that bring on the upsets in your relationship. It is difficult to be turned on to make love when there are upsets with your partner you have yet to address. Anger, resentment, disappointment, bitterness and stress do not make good bed partners. Unless there is a medical problem, when you fix these problems, usually the sex will take care of itself.

Sex is good and pleasure is good for you. Have a desire for more info on sex? Read, Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers.


Copyright © 2010 – Larry James. This idea is adapted from Larry’s books, “How to Really Love the One You’re With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship,” “LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing” and “Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers.” Larry James is a professional speaker, author, relationship coach and a nondenominational minister. He performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere. Something NEW about relationships is posted every 4th day on this Relationships BLOG.

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