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Monday, September 6, 2010

There is No #2. . .

Filed under: Relationships — Larry James @ 7:00 am

togetherIn healthy love relationships, there is no second place. There is no longer any need to have one of you be number one and one of you be number two. Being subservient or submissive doesn’t work.

Healthy people share. In a healthy love relationship, generosity expresses itself generously. Love partners are not afraid to share the spotlight.

Be willing to provide hugs, kisses, and emotional comfort in all circumstances. Support each other.

Give up the idea of having to have any one of the two people who make up a relationship be subservient. When two people really love each other, they are not afraid to be their love partner’s equal. Two people, each number one to each other and to the relationship, working together on similar things and accepting mutual responsibility when things are good and also when things are not so good, can only empower the relationship.

You give “of” yourself to the other. You never give “up” yourself to the other. When you are both number one, no one ever has to worry about competition in the relationship.

When two people work together, they can always accomplish more.

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Copyright © 2010 – Larry James. This idea is adapted from Larry’s books, “How to Really Love the One You’re With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship,” “LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing” and “Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers.” Larry James is a professional speaker, author, relationship coach and a nondenominational minister. He performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere. Something NEW about relationships is posted every 4th day on this Relationships BLOG.

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