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Monday, July 12, 2010

LoveNote. . .

Filed under: Intimacy,LoveNote — Larry James @ 7:00 am

Relationship problems always find their way into the bedroom. Being too busy in your life often expresses as exhaustion; petty situations as resentment; unresolved conflict as anger, all resulting in a declining desire and far less than the energy required for healthy sex.

You may be together, but emotionally you are really not there for each other; both lying there, silently resigned to doing nothing to make it better, wallowing in your bitterness and resentment.

It is not possible to solve a problem that you cannot both acknowledge.

Can you imagine how your love life would be different if you would only talk about what’s really going on?

You don’t know what you are missing!

When you can learn to communicate about anything and everything at anytime, you can then not only share your love, you will find the full expression of the love you have for each other even more exciting. If you can’t talk about it, you can’t fix it!

Closer intimacy is about effective communications.


Copyright © 2010 – Larry James. This idea is adapted from Larry’s books, “How to Really Love the One You’re With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship,” “LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing” and “Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers.” Larry James is a professional speaker, author, relationship coach and a nondenominational minister. He performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere. Something NEW about relationships is posted every 4th day on this Relationships BLOG.

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