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Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Planet Positions Got You Spaced Out?

Filed under: Relationships — Larry James @ 8:00 am

Let go of having to “be right!” Healthy, full functioning couples find happiness is sharing their differences instead of being indifferent to them. They discover happiness in discussing, in a loving way, areas of mutual concern.

men - womenIt’s true! Men and women are truly different, AND there are similarities. Men and women are as different as beings from other planets. We speak different languages, listen differently, multi-task differently and think differently.

The good news is that you can learn to understand the differences; you can understand why do they act like this and learn how to deal with it. The good news is that you can learn to understand the differences, you can understand why they act like this and learn how to deal with it. Things will work better for you if you embrace your differences.

Healthy couples identify problems, talk openly and honestly about their differences and choose workable solutions. Integrate your mutual intentions for a healthy, happy relationship or the relationship will evaporate.

Even though it may appear that you are from different planets because you share so little in your communication, it is possible for you to lay down your ray guns, seek peace and choose to travel in the same orbit, working together to celebrate your differences in ways that mutually benefit the relationship.

Always remember: If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it!

Copyright © 2010 – Larry James. This idea is adapted from Larry’s books, “How to Really Love the One You’re With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship,” “LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing” and “Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers.” Larry James is a professional speaker, author, relationship coach and a nondenominational minister. He performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere.

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