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Sunday, May 9, 2010

Reward Your Partnership for Doing the Right Thing

Filed under: Relationships — Larry James @ 6:00 am

Stay on track. Do what’s right. Do unto your partner what you would have them do unto you. Indulge in honoring your combined efforts.

Buy your partnership a trophy from a trophy shop. Have it engraved. Present it to each other in your very own private ceremony where you renew your promise to each other to continue to work together.

trophyPrint a certificate that gives your partner a glowing review. Say what needs to be said. Award an “I love you!” trophy.

This idea takes some advance planning. Call your partner’s boss. Arrange to have your partner take a day off work. Have the boss write an “excused absence.” On the prearranged morning, present the written “excused absence” with their coffee and have a day planned that will dazzle them and truly be memorable.

Acknowledge and praise your sweetheart. Create your own Love Coupon. Write it with a crayon. Write one for kisses, hugs, sex, a chore they dislike doing and more. Use your imagination.

Put a blindfold on your lover and drive them to a place where you have a blanket, candles, strawberries, sparkling drinks, and a rose. Park the car and take off the blindfold while you read a love note you have written for them.

We should celebrate accomplishments! The fact that a goal was set, a plan was established and a result has been achieved is no easy task. Losing weight, sealing a deal at work, buying a house, or acing a crucial exam are worthy of celebration. Anything accomplished by your partner deserves some recognition!

ribbonheartCopyright © 2010 – Larry James. This idea is adapted from Larry’s Wedding Website. Larry James is a non-denominational minister and performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere! Every wedding ceremony is customized to your complete satisfaction. Call to check availability: 480-998-9411 or 800-725-9223. You will find more than 445 pages of Wedding ideas, tips (90 tips and growing), ceremonies, and more at: Check Larry’s availability.

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1 Comment »

  1. Interesting idea, I also try to give a reward for my spouse when he helps me solving a problem. I like photography and my spouse is a perfect object for my camera because he is quite photogenic. I make simple card with the photo and add some endearment words, It can represent my feeling that I love him so much 🙂

    Comment by turisuna — Tuesday, May 11, 2010 @ 7:49 am | Reply

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