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Wednesday, November 11, 2009

The Correct Carrot

Filed under: Goals,Relationship Goals,Relationships — Larry James @ 8:00 am
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relationshipgoalsWhat is your relationship carrot (or goal)?

What dangles in front of you that keeps you moving forward? What is important to you? To your partner?

If you have no good reasons for being together, then the relationship will not work. Spend some time together talking about what is important to both of you.

Set some mutual relationship goals. Commit these ideas to paper. Undefined goals are unreachable. Goals allow you to control the direction of change in your relationship.

To follow a relationship path without knowing where it leads is a mistake.


Copyright © 2009 – Larry James. This idea is adapted from Larry’s books, “How to Really Love the One You’re With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship,” “LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing” and “Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers.” Larry James is a professional speaker, author, relationship coach and a nondenominational minister. He performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere.

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