When the relationship is strained, it is often difficult to be your own person.
Sometimes you may feel that if you don’t do what your partner wants you to do, he/she will be upset and become even more distant. This is where agreements are important.
Agree to allow each other to make your own choices, first for yourself and then for the relationship.
Remember, women usually respond most to a man’s action or lack of action. Men generally respond most to a woman’s attitude.
So. . . now you know what you need to work on.
Men – Action.
Women – Attitude.
Copyright © 2009 – Larry James. This idea is adapted from Larry’s books, “How to Really Love the One You’re With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship,” “LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing” and “Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers.” Larry James is a professional speaker, author, relationship coach and a nondenominational minister. He performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere.
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