Getting negative over how others treat you is the same as mistreating yourself! Stop wasting your life. Wake up and be wise. See dark thoughts and feelings as the lie that they are. Then, instead of suffering their cruel presence within you as proof that someone did you wrong, you’ll see these negative states themselves as being the sole cause of your suffering. – Guy Finley
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Larry’s Note: This falls under the category of “Take Responsibility” for yourself. Never blame others for how you CHOOSE to feel. Life’s greatest gift is choice. Others do what they do and you CHOOSE to feel good or bad about it. It is always and only your choice. No one can get your goat if they don’t know where it’s tied up! – Larry James
Copyright © 2008 – Larry James. This idea is adapted from Larry’s books, “How to Really Love the One You’re With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship,” “LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing” and “Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers.” Author Larry James presents seminars nationally for singles and couples. Subscribe to Larry’s FREE monthly “LoveNotes for Lovers” eZINE. Contact: CelebrateLove.com, P.O. Box 12695, Scottsdale, AZ 85267-2695. – CelebrateLove.com
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