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Sunday, November 20, 2011

10 Types of Kisses and What They Mean When Dating

Filed under: Kissing — Larry James @ 6:00 am

The kiss can be a mysterious thing; one in need of interpretation, at times. This is especially true when you first start dating someone. There are many different types of kisses, and trying to determine what the other person is attempting to communicate, through the type of kiss they share with you, can be confusing at times. Perhaps these tips will help.

SeniorCoupleKissingPeck on the Cheek – This is the polite kiss. It can mean several different things, depending on the person and how long two people have been dating. On a first date, it may be a means of testing the waters without seeming too aggressive. If you are wanting a kiss on the lips, you may need to initiate it.

Quick Kiss – A quick kiss on the lips, during a new dating relationship, usually means ‘I like you’ or ‘I had fun’. This is especially true of someone who is less verbal about their feelings.

Open-eyed Kiss – If you realize that the other person is not closing their eyes when you kiss them, this means that they are a spectator rather than a participant. Don’t bother.

Closed-eyes Kiss – This is a receptive kiss. When you close your eyes, your sense of touch is heightened so that you can experience the pleasure of the kiss more fully.

Uninvolved Kiss – Does it seem like the other person is less involved in the kissing than you are? This may be a sign that they are preoccupied with other things. This kiss isn’t going anywhere.

Full-mouth Kiss – Their eyes are closed and the kiss is lingering. This would indicate they are enjoying the physical interaction. Keep it up!

French Kiss – This is the open mouth kiss where your tongues become fully involved. This is a definite sign that the person is feeling passionate and uninhibited in their physical relationship with you.

Traveling Kiss – This is when the kiss begins traveling away from the mouth to other parts of the face and neck and beyond. These kisses are intended to arouse you and lead to much more than kissing. If you weren’t planning to have sex with your date, you shouldn’t let this continue.

Hesitant Kiss – A hesitant kiss may mean that the person is simply shy about physical interaction or it may be they are uncertain of your response. Either way, your response to this kiss will be the determining factor to whether or not the kiss is continued or repeated.

happycouplekissingCrushing Kiss – If they seem to crush their face against yours in a way that is more painful than pleasant. This means they have no idea what they’re doing. Do your best to be kind, but let them know that they could decrease the intensity a bit.

Hopefully these definitions will help you out during the next date, when you’re trying to decipher the meaning of that kiss you just got.

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10 Comments »

  1. Wow! Kissing really has a depth of meaning more than I perceived. Thanks for the post.

    Comment by Bella — Wednesday, August 27, 2014 @ 10:40 am | Reply

  2. wow , this is amazin hey .I luv this , jst gt tips . thanx lots

    Comment by varaidzo — Wednesday, July 30, 2014 @ 12:41 am | Reply

  3. I never knew.

    Comment by Moses Blaze — Monday, July 7, 2014 @ 8:28 am | Reply

  4. this really helped thanks

    Comment by pearl — Friday, May 9, 2014 @ 5:23 am | Reply

  5. Thanks for the tips! ! Vani

    Comment by vani — Monday, June 3, 2013 @ 3:06 am | Reply

  6. Kiss on the hand means : FRIENDSHIP.
    Kiss on the nose means : YOU’RE CUTE.
    Kiss on the cheek means : I NEED YOU.
    Kiss on the neck means : I WANT YOU.
    Kiss on the lips means : I LOVE YOU.
    Kissing with eyes closed means : I’M IN LOVE WITH
    YOU.
    Kissing with eyes opened means : I’M WATCHING
    WHERE YOUR HANDS ARE GOING.
    The military Kiss means ….. “Keep It Simple
    Stupid”..
    Stolen Kisses ARE THE SWEETEST! (Always
    want to return it)
    Morale of the story is … Its not WHO you are
    KissING but WHERE you’re KissING that matters
    Other signs …..
    Often thinking of you means : I CARE FOR YOU
    Holding hands means : I LIKE YOU
    Looking into the eyes means : DO YOU LOVE ME?
    Squeezing fingertips means : I WANT A Kiss
    Leaning on the shoulder means : COMFORT ME
    Getting occasional short hugs means : I MISS YOU
    Biting lips means : I AM JEALOUS
    Winking at you means : I WANT TO GO WITH YOU
    Playing with your hair means: I ADORE YOU
    Stepping on toes means: I HATE YOU
    Getting hit in “very painful places” means : I
    REALLY HATE YOU
    Dreaming of you at night : YOU’RE SOMEONE
    SPECIAL
    Always being with you means : I CAN’T LIVE
    WITHOUT YOU
    Wearing his or her ring means: YOU’RE MINE
    FOREVER
    Often giving you something means : CARE FOR
    YOU VERY MUCH
    Placing hands on shoulder means : GET THE HINT
    STUPID!!!

    Comment by Princemedico — Sunday, April 28, 2013 @ 10:50 pm | Reply

  7. Reblogged this on thisgirl1234.

    Comment by thisgirl1234 — Sunday, April 7, 2013 @ 1:43 am | Reply

  8. Super!

    Comment by arjunbiradar — Tuesday, December 11, 2012 @ 9:57 am | Reply

  9. Thanks for this post! I was having a discussion with a friend about kisses last night.. and this is really helpful!

    Comment by charlieburlington — Thursday, November 8, 2012 @ 1:42 pm | Reply

  10. Hmm! I hadn’t thought about definitions of kisses ever in my life but it looks like french kisses and especially travelling kisses are not the best idea right now.

    Comment by katherine quinn — Thursday, August 16, 2012 @ 10:32 pm | Reply


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